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⣴⣾⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣶⣄⡀
⣴⣴⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣮⣵⣄
⢾⣻⣿⢿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⢿⣿⣿⡀
⣽⣻ ⣿⡿ ⣉ ⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣏⡟ ⡉⢻⣿⡌⣿⣳⡥
⢜⣳⡟⢸⣿⣷⣄ ⣴⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣧⣤ ⣼⣿⣇⢸⢧⢣
⢳ ⣸⣿⣿⢿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡿ ⢿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿ ⡟⢆
⣾⣿⣿⣼⣿⣿⣿⣿⡀ ⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣽⣿⣿
⢀⣀⣼⣷⣭⣛⣯⡝ ⢿⣛⣋⣤⣤⣀⣉⣛⣻⡿⢟⣵⣟⣯⣶⣿⣄⡀
⣴⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣷⣶⣶⣶⣾⣶⣶⣴⣾⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⢿⣿⣿⣧
⣿⣿⣿ ⢿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿ ⣿⡿
But I really don’t want to do any of those things.
I’ve dabbled in giving anal play before (with previous partners) and never really enjoyed it. At best I’m apathetic/bored and at worst I actively do not enjoy it and it bothers me to do. It never turns me on and it always feels like a chore.
He didn’t say it outright, but it was implied that not wanting to do these things to/for him made me a hypocrite because I do enjoy receiving anal play.
I guess my question is – because I enjoy receiving anal play, does that mean I should suck it up and give it to partners when they request it? And if I don’t, does that make me a hypocrite or a bad (sexual) partner? At what point am I obligated or expected to perform certain sexual acts in a relationship?
⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡟ ⣸⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣆ ⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿
⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿ ⢀⣴⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿ ⢺⣿⣿⣿⣿
⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡄ ⣿⣿⣿⣿ ⣿⡄ ⣾⣿⣿⣿⣿
⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡇ 👁️ ⢹⣿⡗ 👁️ ⢄⡀⣾⢀⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿
⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡇ ⢀⡀ ⣿⣿⣷⣤⣤⣾⣿⣿⣿⣧⢸⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿
⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡇ ⣰⣿⡿ ⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡛ ⢿⣿⣷⣾⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿
⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡄ ⢛⣿⣿ ⢹⢹⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿
⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡐ ⣀⣀⣚⣯⣵⣶ ⣰ ⣾⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿
⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣷⡄ ⣻⡏ ⣿⣎⣾⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿
⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡿ ⣛⣿⣿⣵⣿⡿⢹⡟⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿