My favorite games tend to be RPGs, especially MMORPGs, and I remember fondly my guild in EverQuest (Raiders of Thought). My current primary MMORPG is The Elder Scrolls Online.

Fighting in pretty much any form bores me. Instead, I find my joy in story, character, puzzles, collecting, and being helpful. So I try to avoid fighting even in games where that's not very reasonable, choosing to spend my time crafting or fishing or on some other peaceful pursuit.